The Autistic Parashah | Shemini
In this week's Parashah, Shemini, we delve into a moment of deep introspection and nuanced complexity within our shared narrative. Nadav and Abihu, sons of Aaron the High Priest, approach the altar with an aish zara (strange fire), a unique offering not commanded by the Divine. This act of spiritual expression, intended to connect in a personal way with the Divine, tragically leads to their immediate demise, consumed by fire from the Divine. This episode, marked by Aaron's profound silence in response to his sons' fate, presents a multifaceted exploration of faith, individual expression, and the repercussions of presenting offerings that diverge from established norms.
This poignant story from Parashat Shemini provides a rich framework for understanding the experiences of autistic adults in a world largely shaped by neurotypical perspectives. Similar to Nadav and Abihu's unique contribution to the Divine, autistic individuals offer distinct insights and interactions that, while not always conforming to societal expectations, enrich our collective understanding and experience of the world. Their unique ways of processing and engaging with their surroundings contribute invaluable diversity to the human narrative.
The dire consequences encountered by Aaron’s sons for their unique offering reflect the misunderstandings and challenges faced by those whose behaviors and expressions stand apart from societal conventions. While not suggesting a literal comparison to the outcome for Nadav and Abihu, this parallel invites reflection on the emotional and social trials encountered when one's inherent mode of being is misconstrued or rejected by the majority.
Aaron’s silent mourning over his sons' sudden deaths resonates with the contemplative journey many in the autistic community and their families navigate, as they reflect on their roles in a society that may not fully recognize or value their unique contributions. This silence speaks to the introspection and sometimes the isolation experienced in the process of seeking understanding and acceptance.
Moving beyond the often-discussed theme of creating inclusive spaces, this exploration of Parashat Shemini invites a deeper appreciation for the essence of what is considered unconventional by societal standards. It challenges us to reexamine our perceptions of normalcy and to celebrate the rich tapestry of human thought and behavior. By engaging with the story of Nadav and Abihu, we are prompted to acknowledge and cherish the distinct "fire" each individual brings, recognizing that our communal life is profoundly enriched by this diversity.
Thus, Parashat Shemini becomes not just a narrative of historical religious observance but a contemporary meditation on the bravery required to live authentically in an environment that may not always welcome or understand such uniqueness. It underscores the importance of broadening our embrace to include all ways of approaching the Divine and navigating our communal spaces, urging us to appreciate the deep and varied expressions of individuality that enrich our collective human experience.
